I’m honored to be a part of this month’s guest post. I’m honored to be a part of what you may call the NLP community because I have a very special relationship with NLP. My love for NLP started at a very young age. I learned NLP in the sixth grade. I have written a book about NLP called NLP for Beginners.
I have always had a love for NLP because it has changed my life. It taught me to be more empathetic and to be able to identify with people’s problems and feelings. Because I am an introverted person, I was often bullied (probably for good reasons). There were so many times when I felt like I wasn’t enough for someone or something and it would be easier to just give up.
After I graduated from high school, I came back to my old life. I learned that I have to be more empathetic with myself and that I will need to be more sensitive to my own feelings. I have to trust that nobody will judge me that way.
Like me, you have a lot of trouble trusting people. It may be that you feel like you have no real friends, but the people that you do find a real bond with are the ones who actually trust you. The problem is that you will easily fall into a loop of this type. I had a very close friend who was a wonderful person. She always made me feel safe.
You will often feel that you have no one you can trust. It may come in a variety of ways. You may not trust your family because your uncle was a complete asshole. You may not trust your friends because they didn’t really like you. You may find that you have no one who you can really turn to for help.
Sometimes it’s a problem with the way you feel about people, but it can also be a case of overconfidence. You feel like you can always rely on someone, but you’re still not sure. You’re convinced that if you just say “yes” to a person, they will magically become your friend. A friend is someone who you feel is going to be there for you, whenever you need them.
I know this is a bit weird, but there is one person you can rely on more than any other. I know it sounds cheesy, but I feel that I trust my friends more than anyone else. I think I could even be more trusting than my family, but that’s just because I’m not the sort of person who would go around telling everyone my deepest secret.
I know I’m not alone in this. There are three main types of friends, the friends we have at work, our closest friends and the ones we have at home. I can’t think of anyone I trust more than my family, but honestly, I feel I have a lot more freedom with my family than I do with my friends.
I know it seems like you can’t trust everyone, but the bottom line is that you can’t. If you and your family have a secret, you can’t go around telling everyone. If you and your friends have a secret, you can’t tell anyone. If you and your friends aren’t really close to each other, you can’t either. Its all up to you.
Nik, you have some serious issues. You have no friends, you are not close to anyone you trust, and you keep secrets.