The number of years that I’ve been married is a mystery to me. I think it is because I have no idea how long my marriage has been in existence. I always assumed it was for eight years, but I’m now going by the fact that the longest I can remember is seven. My husband was my first love, and I didn’t really get to know him until he died.
There is just something special about a wedding. You get to walk down the aisle, get married, and have a family. Some people just spend years in a relationship, and that’s nice, but I think it is because it is a special time and you dont want to wait a year and change a child’s diaper.
The fact is, you can just sit there and be a parent for a couple of years, or you can have the best of both worlds and be your own family. And I think Im a bit of a minimalist when it comes to weddings, because with a lot of my friends I am the one with the kids.
Wedding planning is a really stressful time and its one thing that I have always hated about weddings. Now I can say I have been married for twenty years, so I can say I have been married twenty years and I am still terrified of the process. A lot of people want a simple and traditional wedding with a few flowers, a few photos, and a few speeches. I think that’s great, but you can’t have that kind of wedding.
I think the term wedding is a bit of a misnomer. In this day and age, the phrase “wedding” is used to describe a much more general event with more than just the bride. I mean, it is technically a “nuptial,” but the term is much more generic.
This is the point I’m trying to make, but I am not married. I am not married because I am not married yet. I am married because I am married.
I don’t even really want to get into that. It’s like you have to decide to be married. It has nothing to do with the fact that you are physically married. That is not the point. The point is that you are not just the person who is getting married, you are the person who is getting married.
If you are not actually married, then what you are is not really an “event.” It is a state of being. A state of being is a state of not being married. You are actually getting married to someone who is not you. This is a whole other level of self-awareness. You are making a choice about your relationship with the person you are getting married to.
And because you have decided to be married, you are therefore in love. That is all you are. You are being in love. You are not just getting married, you are getting married. You are not even just a person. You are a state of being, a state of being that is not just you.
You are one of those states, and you don’t even like yourself very much. You are not a person, you are a state. You are also not in love with yourself, you are in love with your state. You are not the person you are marrying to, you are the state you are marrying to. You are the person you are marrying to, but you don’t even know it.